Proof of Life · part of Complete
A quiet check-in, so nothing happens by accident.
Proof of Life asks one small thing, on a rhythm you set: confirm you’re okay. As long as you do, your plan stays completely private. Only if you can’t — after every gentle reminder — does Myend reach the people you trust.
Still with us?
The whole idea
Think of it as a heartbeat with a safety ladder. You confirm you’re okay, the timer resets, and life goes on — privately. Miss it, and a patient, multi-step check runs long before anything is ever shared. The default outcome is that nothing happens.
If a check-in is missed
A ladder of safety nets, not a switch.
Nothing is released the moment you go quiet. Instead, a deliberate, unhurried sequence begins — each step giving you another chance to simply tap “I’m okay.” A single reply at any point stops everything and resets the clock. Scroll to watch the ladder play through.
Your scheduled prompt comes and goes without a response. Nothing happens yet — this is just the start of the clock.
Myend nudges you by email and notification. One tap confirms you're okay and the whole thing quietly resets.
Still quiet? We try once more and then wait — deliberately patient. Life gets busy; a missed tap is never treated as an emergency.
Only after every reminder goes unanswered do the people you named hear from us — never a stranger, never automatically.
Your Legacy Contacts receive access to what you prepared: directives, goodbye messages, your contact list and shared documents.
Two outcomes
Almost always, the answer is nothing changes.
There are only two paths, and the everyday one keeps your plan entirely sealed.
You check in.
One tap, as often as you decide. The timer resets and everything stays exactly as it was.
- Your plan stays sealed
- Nothing is shared with anyone
- No one is contacted
You can’t check in.
The safety ladder runs its full, patient course — and only then is access handed to the people you trust.
- Every reminder is sent first
- Your Legacy Contacts are notified
- Your prepared plan is released to them
You’re in control
You set the rhythm, and who’s involved.
Choose how often Myend checks in — weekly, monthly, or quarterly — and name exactly which of your Legacy Contacts would be notified. Change it whenever you like.
- A cadence that fits your life — frequent or occasional.
- Notifications go only to the Legacy Contacts you name.
- Adjustable any time — your plan changes, so can this.
You’ll confirm you’re okay every month. If you ever can’t, Elena and Marcus will be the first to know.
Worth being clear about
What Proof of Life is — and isn’t.
Connected features
Proof of Life is the trigger behind your plan.
The people it notifies are your Legacy Contacts — and what it releases is everything you prepared.
Set it once, then get on with living.
Proof of Life comes with the Complete plan. Choose your rhythm, name your people, and let the safety ladder do the rest — quietly, in the background.
