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Proof of Life · part of Complete

A quiet check-in, so nothing happens by accident.

Proof of Life asks one small thing, on a rhythm you set: confirm you’re okay. As long as you do, your plan stays completely private. Only if you can’t — after every gentle reminder — does Myend reach the people you trust.

Proof of Life Active
Monthly check-in

Still with us?

One tap resets your timer. That’s all it asks.

The whole idea

Think of it as a heartbeat with a safety ladder. You confirm you’re okay, the timer resets, and life goes on — privately. Miss it, and a patient, multi-step check runs long before anything is ever shared. The default outcome is that nothing happens.

If a check-in is missed

A ladder of safety nets, not a switch.

Nothing is released the moment you go quiet. Instead, a deliberate, unhurried sequence begins — each step giving you another chance to simply tap “I’m okay.” A single reply at any point stops everything and resets the clock. Scroll to watch the ladder play through.

A check-in passes
A check-in goes unanswered

Your scheduled prompt comes and goes without a response. Nothing happens yet — this is just the start of the clock.

Reminder
A gentle reminder reaches you

Myend nudges you by email and notification. One tap confirms you're okay and the whole thing quietly resets.

Grace period
A second reminder, then time to spare

Still quiet? We try once more and then wait — deliberately patient. Life gets busy; a missed tap is never treated as an emergency.

People you chose
Your trusted Legacy Contacts are notified

Only after every reminder goes unanswered do the people you named hear from us — never a stranger, never automatically.

Release
Only now is your plan released

Your Legacy Contacts receive access to what you prepared: directives, goodbye messages, your contact list and shared documents.

Five checks before anything is shared.Any single reply, at any step, stops it cold. Nothing is released by accident.

Two outcomes

Almost always, the answer is nothing changes.

There are only two paths, and the everyday one keeps your plan entirely sealed.

The everyday path

You check in.

One tap, as often as you decide. The timer resets and everything stays exactly as it was.

  • Your plan stays sealed
  • Nothing is shared with anyone
  • No one is contacted
If you can’t

You can’t check in.

The safety ladder runs its full, patient course — and only then is access handed to the people you trust.

  • Every reminder is sent first
  • Your Legacy Contacts are notified
  • Your prepared plan is released to them
A calm older woman relaxing by a sunlit window with a cup of coffee

Peace of mind

The point isn’t to think about it. It’s to get on with your life, knowing it’s handled.

You’re in control

You set the rhythm, and who’s involved.

Choose how often Myend checks in — weekly, monthly, or quarterly — and name exactly which of your Legacy Contacts would be notified. Change it whenever you like.

  • A cadence that fits your life — frequent or occasional.
  • Notifications go only to the Legacy Contacts you name.
  • Adjustable any time — your plan changes, so can this.
Your check-in settings
How often should we check in?
Who should be notified if you can’t?

You’ll confirm you’re okay every month. If you ever can’t, Elena and Marcus will be the first to know.

Worth being clear about

What Proof of Life is — and isn’t.

Automated check-ins, on your schedule

A recurring prompt at the cadence you choose. Respond and everything resets, quietly.

Reminders first, always

Escalation means gentle reminders before anyone is contacted — never a sudden alarm.

Nothing released by accident

Multiple unanswered steps must pass before your Legacy Contacts are ever notified.

Part of the Complete plan

Proof of Life is included with Complete — the tier built for handing everything over safely.

Set it once, then get on with living.

Proof of Life comes with the Complete plan. Choose your rhythm, name your people, and let the safety ladder do the rest — quietly, in the background.