Merry Cemetery
Sapanta Village, Maramureş county, Romania
Castle Bran, known as the home of Dracula
Bran, close to Brașov, Romania
Bellu Cemetery
Bucharest, Romania
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Merry Cemetery & the King of Gypsies

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Introduction

Romania is a land of myths but also rich history. From legendary bloodthirsty vampires to playing games with the dead at funerals, it follows a creative approach to life, death and the dead! At the same time, Romania is a fascinating crossroads of older, humorous death customs and solemn, Christian views of afterlife. Join us in this journey while we explore traditions and superstitions! Finally, we learn more about the King of the Gypsies and visit the, so called, Merry Cemetery.

Death Customs & Superstitions

There are many old traditions and superstitions that are still present upon someone’s death in Romania. Furthermore, some are dying customs, while others still go strong, but they are all equally fascinating!

Games with the Dead

Certain old Romanian death customs adopted a more irreverent approach towards dead, in an effort to reduce its negative impact on the living. For instance, in some extreme cases the body of the dead (mortu in Romanian) was even the object of games. More specifically, it was tied up with ropes and turned into a puppet in order to frighten people that visit the relatives. So these old Romanian customs used mockery and laughter, in an effort to ground the grieving family members to the present!

Therefore, such death customs follow a diametrically opposite approach to most Western traditions.

Cemetery to the Danube - Cernavoda, Constanta County, Romania
Candles

It was also significant to light a candle for the dead and keep it lit as long as possible. This specifically aimed at safely guiding the souls of the dead to the afterlife. Sometimes, however, Romanians did not light up candles if the deceased committed suicide or in case they died far away from their families. As a result, there is a special day (November the 21st) when Romanians light candles for these souls too!

Mirrors

Moreover, according to Romanian death superstitions, all mirrors and similar reflective surfaces like water, must be covered with a black canvas. Otherwise the dead may see their reflection, get trapped in this realm and become a ghost! The same applies even if the procession needs to cross water on its way to the cemetery after the funeral.

Animals

Adding to the above, Romanians take additional precautions to protect the dead. For instance, they often remove animals from the premises during a wake. Due to their sharp senses, pets may feel the dead. Therefore, by removing the animals Romanians try to prevent the spirit of the deceased from turning into a ghost.

Romanian Funeral Traditions

Romania became Christian during the Byzantine times, when monks converted the people of Wallachia and Transylvania. Because of that, the vast majority of the country is still Christian, adhering to the Romanian Orthodox Church. This also influences of course how Romanian burial rites take place.

Professional Mourners

The use of candles we mentioned above remains very popular and so does the precaution of covering mirrors! Moreover, the family may hire a professional mourner, called a bocitoare, who is usually a woman. This woman joins the wake and cries for the dead in case the tears of the family have run dry. Similar old mourning traditions can be found in other parts of Eastern Europe and even Africa. Nowadays these professional “wailers” have almost gone extinct. They support though that it is not just the younger people forgetting this custom. Instead, they point out that is the Church’s fault since it condemns professional mourning as a pagan tradition.

The Watch

Priveghi” or Watch, is the wake and it usually lasts for three days. Additionally, a priest reads a lot of prayers during these days. Relatives also make “Coliva” which is a sweet boiled wheat grains dish, very common in Orthodox traditions across Eastern Europe. It is made exclusively for funerals or wakes, and most people would never make or eat it unless they were joining any of these occasions!

Merry Cemetery

Tombstones at the Merry Cemetery - Sapanta Village, Romania

It is already clear that Romania loves following alternative death customs. The Merry Cemetery is perhaps the greatest example of that.

The Cimitirul Vesel, translated to Merry Cemetery, is a graveyard in the village Săpânța, in Northern Romania. This cemetery has earned its name due to the brightly colored paintings that adorn the tombstones. These paintings were not always made by someone trained in the arts. Moreover, they depict important moments or skills of the person buried in that grave. The first tombstone was prepared in 1935 by Stan Ioan Pătraş, a local artist, and by the1960s there were over 800 colorful tombstones at the Cemetery.

A more humorous approach of death

Most European traditions view the death of a loved one as a painful and sad event in one’s life. The traditions we described above and the Merry Cemetery, though, stand opposite to such views. That is not to say of course that Romanians do not grieve! They just do so in different ways. This is also the reason that the Merry Cemetery might be linked to the Dacian culture.

The Dacian culture is an ancient philosophical and religious approach that sees death as a joyous moment in one’s life. That is so because the ancient Dacians, an ethnic group of the lower Danube, celebrated the immortality of the soul. Additionally, they saw death as a joyous milestone of someone’s life! Nowadays, these ancient religious views, called Zalmoxis, have ties to Romanian Nationalism.

Gypsies in Romania

Roma woman in raditional clothing

On this final part of the post we focus on the Roma population of Romania, known also as Romani or simply gypsies. There are officially over 600.000 Roma gypsies in Romania. However, due to discrimination, it is believed that many Roma remain undocumented, so their actual population is estimated to be between one and three million. It is therefore interesting to see how a gypsy funeral takes place in Romania.

Romani Gypsies are mostly Orthodox as well, usually bringing their deceased home the night before the funeral. Once the loved one has been buried, the family normally visits the grave often and keeps it impeccably clean.

Royal Funeral: The King of Gypsies

A very public occasion of a gypsy funeral, was that of the King of Gypsies: Florin Cioba. He was a Roma activist who was considered to be the King of Gypsies in Romania. Florin died unexpectedly in 2013 and his burial was an important moment for the gypsy community in Romania.

Additionally, he was a big advocate of Roma rights and meant very much to his community. Therefore, when he passed in the age of 58, thousands of gypsies went on the streets, joining the procession during his funeral. Many mourners joined for the entire 7km procession, and Cioba’s coffin was carried exclusively by his followers. Finally, the coffin was also air-conditioned and had a glass panel so his supporters could pay their respects.

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We hope you learned something new regarding this country’s death practices!

If you want to read more on other lighter approaches to death, we recommend our article on the Mexican Día de Muertos.

Winter at Bran Castle
Bran, Brasov, Romania
Romani people at a settlement
Details on crosses at the Merry Cemetery
Sapanta Village, Romania
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Stats & Facts

Romania’s average mixed death rate is a high one, especially for European standards. Specifically, in 2018 it reached 13,5 per 1.000 people.

Usually Romanians bury their dead after the wake is over. This could take up to three days.

There is no state religion in Romania. Instead the country is a secular state. However, Romania remains one of the most religious countries in Europe. Specifically, over 80% of the population identifies as Orthodox, while 12% is Catholic or Protestant. There is also a 700 years old Muslim minority.

Romania has a low rate of utilized organs from donors. The PMP (per million population) rate of organs used as transplants was only 4,34 in 2019.

Life expectancy